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		<title>Making the best of your job</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Referenced from an article from CareerBuilder.co.uk and Caterer.com In a recent survey asked workers in the UK if they were happy, dedicated and enthusiastic about their jobs.The results show the various job sectors and the percentages are shown below. 1) Hospitality – 49.16% 2) Health Sector &#8211; 48.89% 3) Charity &#8211; 34.06% 4) Education &#8211; [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>Referenced from an article from CareerBuilder.co.uk and Caterer.com</em></p>
<div>In a recent survey asked workers in the UK if they were happy, dedicated and enthusiastic about their jobs.The results show the various job sectors and the percentages are shown below.</div>
<p>1) Hospitality – 49.16%</p>
<p>2) Health Sector &#8211; 48.89%</p>
<p>3) Charity &#8211; 34.06%</p>
<p>4) Education &#8211; 30.88%</p>
<p>5) Care/Social work &#8211; 29.92%</p>
<p>5) Forces/Police &#8211; 28.57%</p>
<p>6) Skilled (designer/electrician) &#8211; 20.43%</p>
<p>7) Sales (phone/door2door) &#8211; 16.98%</p>
<p>8 ) Labour &#8211; 11.00%</p>
<p>9) Office-based &#8211; 10.01%</p>
<p>10) Retail &#8211; 7.17%</p>
<p>You may feel the results surprising when you subtract some of these percentages from 100% but it shows that a large number of people are happy with their lot. So what if you are in the ‘not so happy and enthusiastic’ group.</p>
<p>Let’s be honest – what if you really hate your job? What can you do? How many of us have the luxury to just get up and leave your job without having another lined up? Especially in these times of economic austerity, one of the worst things you could do is leave a job and find it impossible to find another one.</p>
<p>You do have choices, however. Having a job you hate is never an easy thing to deal with, but sometimes you just need to do is take a good hard luck at your options and decide to make the most of the job you have. Whether you&#8217;re currently stuck because you just have to pay the bills or are holding out for the next great opportunity, here are some ways to get through the day:</p>
<p><strong>Develop your skills.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Not liking your job doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t learn new skills. Use your time to make yourself a better candidate down the road. If your company offers training courses, take advantage of them. Use downtime to learn something new on your computer. Pick up a management development book and read it at lunch. Turn this job into an opportunity for self-improvement.</p>
<p><strong>Blow off some steam.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Most people have an activity that helps them unwind and get rid of tension. Go for a run after work, go swimming on your lunch hour, or take a nice long walk. Put this activity on your schedule so you will have something to look forward to every day.</p>
<p><strong>Maintain your performance.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>It is important to continue to do your work and do it well, regardless of your current situation. Set personal performance goals. Then use the accomplishments in future interviews.</p>
<p><strong>Do one thing each day to help you reach your goals.</strong></p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need to cross all your goals off your list every day, but you can chip away daily. When you get up in the morning, set a daily objective for yourself and make sure you achieve it. This will give you a sense of accomplishment and keep you feeling good about your progress.</p>
<p><strong>Develop a positive morning ritual.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Going into a job you hate will be worse if you get to the office feeling rushed, stressed and frazzled. Set aside some moments of solitude each morning. Treat yourself to a latte, get up early enough to read the paper, or just set your alarm to play upbeat music when you wake up. Improving your mornings can do wonders for the rest of your day.</p>
<p><strong>Create a diversion for yourself in the office.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Does being in your office make you yearn for the outdoors? Are the incessant ringing phones driving you batty? Do something to brighten your mood while you&#8217;re at work. Take in a tropical picture and use it as your screensaver. Buy yourself a &#8220;joke of the day&#8221; desk calendar. Plug headphones into your computer or bring your iPod to work. Go out for lunch.</p>
<p><strong>Treat yourself.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>To make up for your office misery, find little ways of treating yourself. Buy a good book to read. Treat yourself to ice cream. Buy some flowers. Shop for a new interview suit. Plan your next vacation. Find out what makes you feel better inside, no matter what is going on outside.</p>
<p><strong>Keep your bridges intact.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>It really is a small world, and you never know when you will run into co-workers from your past. Don&#8217;t burn any bridges at your company because you are unhappy. Maintain your contacts and keep your relationships positive. You might just need a reference or a good word from one of your colleagues in the future.</p>
<p><strong>Set weekly goals for yourself.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Sometimes it is easier to make it to 5.00pm  when you can keep your eye on your goals. Even if you hate your job now, there is something out there that will make you happy. Set weekly goals to help you find that golden opportunity. One week you might strive to send out five CVs or attend one networking event. Setting these goals will give you something to work toward.</p>
<p><strong>Realise that this too shall pass.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>Right now, it might seem like you will be stuck in this job forever. Keep your chin up and remind yourself that you are in charge of your destiny. Search internal postings for new positions. Start your search for a new job externally.</p>
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		<title>How to set goals and achieve them using tactics</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 15:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the key challenges with setting goals is the need to set &#8220;our goals&#8221; – goals that reflect our true values. Only when we are following a path that conforms to our true values – personally or collectively – can we be at our most effective. However, many of us have yet to fully [...]]]></description>
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<p>One of the key challenges with setting goals is the need to set &#8220;our goals&#8221; – goals that reflect our true values. Only when we are following a path that conforms to our true values – personally or collectively – can we be at our most effective.</p>
<p>However, many of us have yet to fully explore our true values, which should be the first exercise in any campaign: <em>what do we really need to achieve?</em></p>
<p>This requires us to write our own personal charter – a founding document or mission statement that, like a political manifesto, sets out what we stand for. Our charter is important because, from here, we can indulge ourselves in the second major goal-setting exercise: <em>Visualisation</em>. We should pick a distant timeline and imagine ourselves at that point. This can work for teams as much as individuals, although each member needs to be fully onboard with the future goal.</p>
<p>We need to write all of our goals down using positive language. Positive language is easier to visualise and much easier to communicate to others. With our true goals set we now have a strong path ahead, giving us focus and good judgement Yet we now need to execute our goals, and this requires a strategy. Many people struggle with the concept of a strategy, mixing it up with either objectives or tactics. In reality, it is no more than the bridge between the objectives and the tactics – making sure the individual tactics are co-ordinated and aimed at meeting the objectives.</p>
<p>Some thoughts on tactics:</p>
<ol>
<li>Tactics are mostly action points – contact this person, write this letter, make that phone call, get that meeting. But they can also be developmental: develop this skill, acquire that knowledge etc.</li>
<li>Tactics can be tiny steps or giant leaps. Giant leaps are rare, however, and can often move you to the wrong place. In fact, where possible, giant leaps should be converted into a series of tiny steps that produce a series of small victories. Giant leaps based purely on bravado are pointless, potentially-wasteful and should be avoided.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t execute tactics on too many fronts. Concentrate energies in one place in order to gain small victories. And then move on</li>
<li>Work out the cost (in every respect) of each tactic beforehand and be prepared to pay it. Balking at the cost halfway through is the quickest way to derail an entire campaign</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t start a tactic without a clear idea of its outcome, and focus purely on that outcome – most alternative outcomes will, in reality, be setbacks</li>
<li>But be flexible. You may have to change tactics quickly when outcomes do not go as planned.</li>
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<p>Finally, remember to keep the objectives, the strategy and the tactics separate. If a tactic doesn&#8217;t work, abandon it but don&#8217;t change the strategy. Only after repeated tactical failures should the strategy be questioned. And only after repeated strategic failures should we reassess our objectives.</p>
<p><em>*This article was a reference from an original article in Training Zone </em></p>
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		<title>Nine confidence boosters for trainers</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 15:53:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even the most experienced trainers get the occasional butterflies before a course. The trick is not to show nerves to your audience for fear of losing credibility. Here are some key points every trainer needs – before, during and immediately after a training session for instantly boosting your confidence: Before the training course Choose clothes you&#8217;re [...]]]></description>
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<p>Even the most experienced trainers get the occasional butterflies before a course. The trick is not to show nerves to your audience for fear of losing credibility. Here are some key points every trainer needs – before, during and immediately after a training session for instantly boosting your confidence:</p>
<p><strong>Before the training course</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Choose clothes you&#8217;re comfortable in</strong></li>
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<p>The best clothes for training are the ones that course delegates don&#8217;t notice. They don&#8217;t notice them because they look &#8216;right&#8217; and they can focus on what they are learning rather than being distracted by something you&#8217;ve got on. Choose clothes that you feel both comfortable and confident in. You might have something you wear which makes you feel good and in control of the situation.</p>
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<li><strong>Be consistent</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>Many trainers have a ritual they go through before beginning a course. Whether it&#8217;s going through positive visualisation exercises through to having a checklist of everything you need to bring to the training room. It’s all about having that little piece of certainty about your day; something you&#8217;re in control of that can help to calm those butterflies down. It also ensures you&#8217;re fully prepared and ready to start.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Getting it right at the start</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>When your heart’s beating, the last thing any trainer wants to do is stumble over the first few words. Starting confidently sets the tone for the training session and relaxes those nerves. Practice that opening line out loud and you&#8217;ll find you put both yourself and your delegates at ease. They want to learn from someone who sounds like they know what they are talking about.</p>
<p><strong>During the training course</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Smile and make eye contact</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>A smile is the international signal of confidence and acceptance. Smiling with eye contact also sends out signals to the people in front of you that you&#8217;re approachable and trustworthy when done in a genuine way. First impressions are important when you meet people and will have an impact on the rapport and relationships you are looking to achieve.</p>
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<li><strong>Stand up straight and deepen your voice</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>When people are nervous, their breathing tends to be quite shallow and fast. When you stand up straight and breathe from your diaphragm you&#8217;re able to fill your lungs properly and get oxygen into your bloodstream. This in turn relaxes you. When you breathe from lower in your chest, you can also deepen your voice. A deeper voice is associated with maturity and authority while a high squeaky voice is often associated with immaturity and inexperience. When you hear your voice deepen it not only makes you feel in control, it also makes people take what you say more seriously.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Be okay with not knowing the answer</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>It would be impossible for a trainer to know absolutely everything there is to know about their topic, so accept that there might be some questions you can&#8217;t answer straight away. A technique sometimes used when faced with tough questions is to reflect it back to the group: &#8220;What a great question. What do you think the answer might be?&#8221; while scanning around the room. There&#8217;s always someone who has been aching for the opportunity to show how much they know. Being able to field tricky questions means you can relax and exude confidence. Another great tip is to set up a ‘question scribe’, someone who writes down questions that crop up during the course. Using this technique it allows you to “come back to you all later via email with the answer to the question”.</p>
<p><strong>After the training course</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Don’t expect miracles</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>It&#8217;s always nice if you&#8217;ve done such a great job that everyone jumps to their feet to applaud you – in reality it doesn&#8217;t happen all that often. If people gather up their things and leave the training room without saying a word, that&#8217;s okay, provided you know you&#8217;ve done a good job. Remember you are there to deliver information in a way that makes people more productive – end of story. You’re not ‘making the world a better place’; so make the shift in your mind to facilitating their learning rather than being responsible for changing lives and you&#8217;ll boost your confidence and be much more present.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Check feedback forms with someone else (not on your own)</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>No matter how good the training session went, one piece of less than positive feedback has the potential to knock your confidence. We&#8217;re all human. The tip is: go through the feedback forms with someone else so you can talk it through and put any negative comments into perspective.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Be kind to yourself</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>Ask people what their number one fear is and most will tell you it&#8217;s speaking in public. As a trainer, you&#8217;ve got a skill that many people wished they had. It takes guts to get up there and take a training session and you need to give yourself a pat on the back every now and then. Beating yourself up emotionally won&#8217;t help anyone. Remind yourself that you are “good at what you do” and that it takes a special someone to do what you do. Most people would run from the chance to do it so by conducting a training session you’re already ‘someone special’.</p>
<p>Good luck!!!</p>
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<p><em>*This article was referenced from an original article in Training Zone (www.trainingsone.co.uk)</em></p>
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		<title>Tips on How to Make Them Listen</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 15:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all know that any training, coaching or mentoring is a two-way process. Regardless of how the training is delivered, face-to-face or internet-based, the learning outcomes depend on both the trainer and trainee. Coaching and mentoring are more to do with changes of behaviour than learning simple skills. New behaviour has to supplant the old [...]]]></description>
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<p>We all know that any training, coaching or mentoring is a two-way process. Regardless of how the training is delivered, face-to-face or internet-based, the learning outcomes depend on both the trainer and trainee. Coaching and mentoring are more to do with changes of behaviour than learning simple skills.</p>
<p>New behaviour has to supplant the old behaviour and this is very difficult with interpersonal skills that are used in a social context. It is always possible to argue that the social context, not the behaviour, determines the outcome.</p>
<p><strong>Why they don’t listen</strong></p>
<p>We all carry around in our heads a memory of everything that has ever happened to and around us. What you are saying or doing is added to that mass of memories, of experiences. Your voice is louder because it is in the here and now but there are thousands of other voices competing for the listener&#8217;s belief. These accumulated memories and experiences lead us to have expectations. Experience gives rise to expectations and we create stereotypes to direct our decisions. If you feel your current situation is dangerous you are not going to be receptive to new ideas. Your body and brain are geared to fight or flee.</p>
<p>One of the key topics we use on our Train The Trainer and Presentation Skills courses is how to get your audience to listen to you. Here are some of the key pointers we teach our delegates to use.</p>
<p><strong>Top tips to make them listen</strong></p>
<p>1.      You seek feedback and frequently summarise</p>
<p>2.      You talk about the audience’s problems and requirements</p>
<p>3.      You involve the audience by interaction or demonstration</p>
<p>4.      The first and last impressions made are both positive and favourable</p>
<p>5.      Ensure all points made are relevant and of special interest</p>
<p>6.      Use acronyms, mnemonics and linking key points together to create memorable associations.</p>
<p>7.      On slides &#8211; use text for the known – use illustrations for the unknown</p>
<p>8.      Strong vocal delivery mixed with strong visuals greatly improve retention of information during passive review (the term for sitting and listening)</p>
<p>9.      Be steady and don’t go too fast</p>
<p>10.    Be aware of different communication preferences</p>
<p>11.    Be aware of all the other voices in your trainee’s ears</p>
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		<title>Survey: Nearly 25% of Leaders Breach Conduct Guidelines</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A survey undertaken by the Chartered Management Institute revealed that nearly a quarter of leaders had knowingly breached professional conduct guidelines at work, with men significantly more likely to do so (30%) than their female counterparts (19%). Moreover, of the 1,000 bosses questioned, nearly 25% had not even bothered to read their employer&#8217;s or professional [...]]]></description>
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<p>A survey undertaken by the Chartered Management Institute revealed that nearly a quarter of leaders had knowingly breached professional conduct guidelines at work, with men significantly more likely to do so (30%) than their female counterparts (19%).</p>
<p>Moreover, of the 1,000 bosses questioned, nearly 25% had not even bothered to read their employer&#8217;s or professional body&#8217;s code of conduct, while almost three quarters of those belonging to a professional association did not even know such guidance existed or that they were required to follow it.</p>
<p>Nonetheless, three out of five said that they would think better of colleagues if they made an effort to abide to such rules. The Chartered Management Institute has recently reviewed and updated its mandatory Code of Professional Conduct and Practice and renamed it the &#8216;Code of Practice for Professional Managers&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>5 key ways to demonstrate effective leadership</strong></p>
<p>Our leadership courses promote the effective and practical skills and strategies the modern manager must employ to run their teams more effectively.</p>
<p><strong>1. Purpose and values</strong></p>
<p>Give your team a sense of purpose and ensure they all know the values you hold as high priority. Members of high performing teams share a sense of common purpose. They are clear about what constitutes the team&#8217;s &#8216;work&#8217; and why it is important. They can describe a picture of what the team needs to achieve, and the norms and values that will guide them.</p>
<p><strong>2. Empowerment</strong></p>
<p>Empower your team towards success. Members are confident about the team&#8217;s ability to overcome obstacles and realise its purpose. A sense of mutual respect enables members to share responsibilities, help each other out, and take initiative to meet challenges. Members have opportunities to grow and learn new skills.</p>
<p><strong>3. Relationships and communication</strong></p>
<p>The team is committed to open communication. All relevant information is available for teams to be able to make effective decisions. Team members feel they can state their opinions, thoughts and feelings without fear. Listening is considered as important speaking. Differences of opinion and perspective are valued and methods of managing conflict are understood.</p>
<p><strong>4. Flexibility</strong></p>
<p>Ensure that your team members are flexible, and they perform different tasks and maintenance functions as needed. The responsibility for team development and leadership is shared. When the team is fluid and open to both opinions and feelings they are more likely to work hard and work fun.</p>
<p><strong>5. Recognition and appreciation</strong></p>
<p>By far the biggest motivator. Team  members who feel highly regarded within the team, experience a sense of personal accomplishment in relation to their team and task contributions.</p>
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		<title>The Equality Act 2010</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The new Equality Act 2010 and its effect on interviewing The Equality Act becomes law in October 2010 and although not all of it will be implemented immediately it is important that employers understand how it will affect your organisation’s current practices and what you need to do to be on the right side of [...]]]></description>
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<p>The Equality Act becomes law in October 2010 and although not all of it will be implemented immediately it is important that employers understand how it will affect your organisation’s current practices and what you need to do to be on the right side of discrimination law.</p>
<p>Because of criticism of certain confusions caused by current discrimination law, the Equality Act attempts to simplify elements of it so that both employer and employee are able to recognise discrimination, pre-empt it and effectively eradicate it. It harmonises and replaces previous legislation (such as the Race Relations Act 1976 and the Disability Discrimination Act 1995) and ensures consistency in what you need to do to make your workplace a fair environment and to comply with the law.</p>
<h2>How the Equality Act affects interviewing and recruitment?</h2>
<p>If you are recruiting someone to work for you, equality law applies to you whatever the size of your organisation or whatever sector you work in.</p>
<p><strong>Question</strong> – Are you discriminating without realising it?</p>
<p>Which of the following could be classed as discrimination? Answers at the end of this newsletter.</p>
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<li>The job you have advertised requires travelling to lots of different places to see clients. You quote on a job advert that the successful applicant has to be able to drive.</li>
<li>You would like to see more women in your workplace so you screen applications to ensure that you have a short list of women only &#8211; to ensure that a woman is appointed to the post?</li>
<li>You refuse employment to a turban-wearing Sikh who refuses to wear a safety helmet on a construction site?</li>
<li>You decide you’ll ask all applicants how many sick days they have had off in the last 12 months.</li>
<li>An applicant states that they had a sex change operation 8 years ago. They are the best candidate for the job but you fear that some of the people in the department they will be working with wouldn’t feel comfortable with them so you reject their application.</li>
<li>You decide not to employ a person who uses a wheelchair because they have to work on the second floor of the building and you don’t have a lift.</li>
<li>An employer rejects someone for a management job just because they are 25 years old and much younger than the people they would be managing.</li>
</ol>
<p>In this newsletter we have tried to lay out what the new act affects and how to avoid the claim of discrimination being levied at your organisation. The Act covers many areas of recruitment and it is important that potential employers review the following aspects of recruitment:</p>
<ul>
<li>Thinking about what the job involves and what skills, qualities and experience a person will need to do it</li>
<li>Job adverts</li>
<li>Application forms and CVs</li>
<li>Shortlisting applicants to meet or interview</li>
<li>Interviews, meetings and tests</li>
<li>Recruiting women who are pregnant or on maternity leave</li>
<li>Equality good practice</li>
<li>Using positive action to recruit a wider range of people</li>
<li>Using monitoring forms during recruitment</li>
</ul>
<p>We won’t be covering all of these in this newsletter but if you are unsure or require information about the wider aspects of the act such as disciplinary procedure, pay and working conditions, training, development or working hours then you will find more information at the end of this newsletter.</p>
<h2>What does The Equality Act protect?</h2>
<p>At the moment, there are several different laws to protect people from discrimination. We are afforded protection if we fall under the category of Protected Characteristics; those which are relevant to the act are listed below. You cannot discriminate against someone on grounds of:</p>
<ul>
<li>race</li>
<li>sex</li>
<li>sexual orientation (whether being lesbian, gay, bisexual or heterosexual)</li>
<li>disability (or because of something connected with their disability)</li>
<li>religion or belief</li>
<li>being a transsexual person (transsexuality is where someone has changed, is changing or has proposed changing their sex – called ‘gender reassignment’ in law)</li>
<li>having just had a baby or being pregnant</li>
<li>being married or in a civil partnership (this applies only at work or if someone is being trained for work)</li>
<li>age (this applies only at work or if someone is being trained for work)</li>
</ul>
<p>The Equality Act 2010 simplifies the current laws and puts them all together in one piece of legislation. Also, it makes the law stronger in some areas. Most of the Equality Act will start to apply in October 2010 and this newsletter covers the main changes coming into effect then and the changes/adjustments that must be made to comply with the Act.</p>
<p>Among the key provisions affecting interviewing and recruitment are the following:</p>
<p><strong>Pre-employment health questionnaires</strong>: This new provision prohibits employers asking job applicants questions about their health and whether they have a disability.</p>
<p><strong>Discrimination by association or based on perception</strong>: The ban on discrimination by association will be extended to protect spouses, partners, parents and carers who look after a disabled person or older relative from discrimination.</p>
<h2>How this affects the interview</h2>
<p>Unlawful discrimination can take a number of different forms:</p>
<ul>
<li>You must not treat a person <strong>worse</strong> than someone else just because of a protected characteristic (this is called direct discrimination). One of the most obvious infringements of this is asking someone if they were thinking of having kids in the next few years.</li>
<li>You must not do something to someone in a way that has a worse impact on them and other people who share a particular protected characteristic than on people who do not have that characteristic. Unless you can show that what you have done, or intend to do, is <strong>objectively justified</strong>, this will be <strong>indirect discrimination</strong>. ‘Doing something’ can include making a decision, or applying a rule or way of doing things. You insist that all job applicants must be able to drive even though the role can be carried out using public transport.</li>
<li>You must not treat a disabled person <strong>unfavourably</strong> because of something connected to their disability where you cannot show that what you are doing is <strong>objectively justified</strong>. This could apply if you turn down an applicant who has mobility disability even though this doesn’t directly affect their ability to do the job.</li>
<li>You must not treat a person worse than someone else because they are<strong> associated with</strong> a person who has a protected characteristic; e.g. you don’t employ someone because they are a carer for someone with a disability.</li>
<li>You must not treat a person worse because you incorrectly think they have a protected characteristic (<strong>perception discrimination</strong>) e.g. you think that someone looks younger than they are so you don’t employ them.</li>
</ul>
<p>In addition, to make sure that disabled people have the same access, as far as is reasonable, to everything that is involved in getting and doing a job as a non-disabled person, you must make <strong>reasonable adjustments.</strong></p>
<p>If an applicant asks for information about the job and the application form (if there is one) in an <strong>alternative format</strong> which they require because they are a disabled person then you must provide this, so long as it is a reasonable adjustment – and it is likely to be.</p>
<p>If an applicant needs reasonable adjustments to participate in any interview or assessment process, then you must make them. When you assess an applicant’s suitability for the job you must take account of how reasonable adjustments could enable them to do the job.</p>
<p>If, after taking reasonable adjustments into account, they would not be the best person for the job, you do not have to offer it to them. But if they would be the best person with the reasonable adjustments in place, you must offer them the job. In any event, it would make sense for you to do this, as you want the best person for the job.</p>
<h2>Tip for avoiding discrimination</h2>
<p>Don’t ask questions which may suggest that you have already decided they are the wrong person for the job because of their protected characteristics. For example, saying ‘Don’t you think you’re a bit young for this job?’</p>
<p>Ask questions which relate to the job.</p>
<p>It is a myth that equality law says you must ask everyone exactly the same questions. There is no reason for you not to ask about things that are different for a particular candidate, or follow up an applicant’s answers with questions that relate to what they have just said.</p>
<p>However, you should be focusing on the same broad subject areas with each applicant. This is because otherwise you may be applying different standards to different applicants based on their protected characteristics, and this might lead to unlawful discrimination.</p>
<p>No-one else can ask these questions on your behalf either. So you cannot refer an applicant to an <strong>occupational health practitioner</strong> or ask an applicant to fill in a questionnaire provided by an occupational health practitioner before the offer of a job is made (or before inclusion in a pool of successful applicants) except in very limited circumstances, which are explained next.</p>
<p>The point of stopping employers asking questions about health or disability is to make sure that all job applicants are looked at properly to see if they can do the job in question, and not ruled out just because of issues related to or arising from their health or disability, such as sickness absence, which may well say nothing about whether they can do the job now.</p>
<p>You can ask questions once you have made a job offer or included someone in a group of successful candidates. At that stage, you could make sure that someone’s health or disability would not prevent them from doing the job. But you must consider whether there are reasonable adjustments that would enable them to do the job.</p>
<h2>Answers to the earlier quiz</h2>
<p>ALL of the previous examples could be classed as discrimination under current UK law. For more information refer to the following websites. Remember these laws are there to protect us ALL and to give us a fairer playing field in all aspects of employment.</p>
<h2>For Further Information</h2>
<p>For more information these websites will give you the answers you are looking for.</p>
<p>Worth making sure you know ACAS guidelines as these are the guys who set out the recommendations by which UK employment tribunals base their judgements</p>
<p><a href="http://www.acas.org.uk/index.aspx?articleid=3017" target="_blank">www.acas.org.uk/index.aspx?articleid=3017</a></p>
<p>This is the website for the Equality and Human Rights Commission. This is probably the most comprehensive of all information available on the web for clear and informative information regarding the Equality Act.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.equalityhumanrights.com/advice-and-guidance/new-equality-act-guidance/equality-act-2010-guidance" target="_blank">www.equalityhumanrights.com/advice-and-guidance/new-equality-act-guidance/equality-act-2010-guidance</a></p>
<p>For the question about Sikh’s and Personal Protective Equipment – this gives the rationale behind that question and more.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.europarl.europa.eu/stoa/publications/studies/19992001_en.pdf" target="_blank">www.europarl.europa.eu/stoa/publications/studies/19992001_en.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>Vocal Elements of Communication in Leadership</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><h2>Sounding assertive</h2>
<p>People respond to our vocal delivery or in other words how we come across. To understand how the voice conveys messages, recall a time when you have overheard a muffled conversation going on behind a closed door or on the other side of a wall. You almost certainly had a good idea of the type of feelings of the people concerned without seeing the visual behaviours. Also, as very young children we can pick up the feelings of our parents without even being able to understand the words. Most toddlers are only too aware that a parent is angry with them! A key part of assertiveness is the confidence we display when asking for what we want. We will always adjust our reactions if we assume the other person is confident or unsure in their demands. We can help ourselves greatly if we confident vocal tonality when we need to be assertive. There are four ways that your voice can convey messages:</p>
<ol>
<li>Loudness</li>
<li>Rate</li>
<li>Fluency</li>
<li>Affect</li>
</ol>
<h2>Loudness</h2>
<p>The volume of your voice says a great deal about your feelings at that moment. There are two ways in which loudness affects the impact of your communication. First, is the basic volume you use – the way you speak most of the time. You may, for instance, have the habit of talking so softly that others find it difficult to understand you. Whatever the reasons for such a quiet tone, the impression it often creates is one of timidity and uncertainty. On the other hand, you might talk so loudly that other listeners become uncomfortable around you. Excessive volume usually suggests aggression, anger or boorishness, even when you have no such feelings.</p>
<p>Unlike the people who always express themselves at an inappropriate volume, others may speak too loudly or too softly only at certain critical times. For instance, you might find that your normally pleasant voice turns into a shout when you are angry. Or you might almost lose your voice to just a whisper when you are upset. Needless to say, either of these extremes will usually diminish the effectiveness of your message.</p>
<h2>Rate</h2>
<p>Some speakers talk too rapidly and others too slowly. A speedy delivery often conveys a sense of nervousness or aggression, while a low, overly hesitant manner often appears to indicate uncertainty.</p>
<p>The average rate of speech is between 100 – 120 words per minute, thus providing a gauge against which you can measure your own speed.</p>
<h2>Fluency</h2>
<p>In addition to speaking at an appropriate rate and volume, another important factor is flow or fluency; the absence of unnecessary sounds or phrases such as “uhm” and “er”, “you know”, as well as other distracting vocal mannerisms such as repetitious words and long pauses. You might already be aware of using some of these in your speech. If not, try asking others who know you well whether you use any.</p>
<h2>Affect</h2>
<p>The affective ingredients of your voice include both tone and inflection. These elements are major tools for expressing your feelings. Think of the number of messages you could convey with a single sentence such as “I hope you will call me”, just by changing the tone. These simple words could communicate excitement, affection, sarcasm, anger or disinterest, depending on the variations in the pitch chosen by the speaker.</p>
<h2>Practcal tips for sounding confident</h2>
<p>There are several things you can do to produce a more confident vocal delivery. Some of these include:</p>
<ol>
<li>Practise your pitch and control by recording your voice and listen to the playback and critique yourself or ask a colleague to help. Review it for tone, rate of delivery etc.</li>
<li>Learn some voice inflection exercises to help you avoid a monotone sound.</li>
<li>Put a SMILE into your voice. It&#8217;s easy to do and your voice will sound friendlier.</li>
<li>To become more confident in your voice, speak with fluency and without hesitation. Confident people also intonate their voices and put emphasis on words or parts of words.</li>
<li>Low pitched voices carry more authority but can sound boring, monotone and dismissive unless the speaker varies their tone and intonation.</li>
<li>High pitched voices sound positive and action orientated but also need a variation in pitch and pace otherwise they sound hysterical.</li>
</ol>
<h2>Exercise</h2>
<p>Managing your verbal communications. You are a sales team manager and need to speak to one of your team about her performance at work.</p>
<p><em>“Hi Michele. Sorry to have to bring this up again but I’m a bit worried about your sales results. It’s not a big thing and I know you like spending more time chatting with customers on sales calls because you find that the consultative approach to selling more enjoyable. It’s just that the numbers are starting to slip slightly and I’m a little worried. I think you should be a bit quicker with your calls. I know you’ll do your best”.</em></p>
<p>In response she agrees that she should make more calls but is over target and is happy with her current performance. You reply:</p>
<p><em>“Don’t get me wrong, I think you’re doing a great job and I don’t want you to think I’m having a go at you. It’s just that I’d prefer it if you made a bit more effort. Anyway as I said it’s no big thing”</em></p>
<p>Rewrite the transcript removing any verbal qualifiers.</p>
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		<title>Training the Trainer: Develop your Aims and Objectives</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a saying: &#8220;If you don&#8217;t know where you&#8217;re going, you won&#8217;t get there; but if, by chance, you do get there &#8211; you won&#8217;t know you&#8217;re there&#8220;. In order to avoid this being true of either the trainer or the trainees in a training session, a clear, realistic and measurable OBJECTIVE must be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>There is a saying: &#8220;<em>If you don&#8217;t know where you&#8217;re going, you won&#8217;t get there; but if, by chance, you do get there &#8211; you won&#8217;t know you&#8217;re there</em>&#8220;.</p>
<p>In order to avoid this being true of either the trainer or the trainees in a training session, a clear, realistic and measurable OBJECTIVE must be stated by the trainer. This is the most important step in preparing a training session as you need to be able to answer the following questions before you start writing your training session.</p>
<p>“What do I want the delegates to do as a result of this training session?”</p>
<p>“What do I want to accomplish by giving this course?”</p>
<p>“What outcomes do I require the trainees to achieve once the training has ended?”</p>
<p>An objective is a statement of the goal to be achieved by the trainees by the end of a training session, in terms of recall and understanding. Objectives can be useful in several ways:</p>
<ul>
<li>to assist in planning a presentation or training session</li>
<li>to help the trainer eliminate irrelevant information</li>
<li>to focus the attention of the trainees</li>
<li>to ensure that both the trainer and trainee know where they are going</li>
<li>to test the recall and understanding of the trainees.</li>
</ul>
<p>It is essential that you determine your training aims and objectives at the onset. Too often, trainers concentrate on “What am I going to say?” Alternatively, you need to concentrate on “Why am I giving this training session?” The rest of your training will be designed to support this answer.</p>
<h2>How to write realistic aims and objectives for your training session</h2>
<p>No matter which format you choose, your aims and objectives must be attainable and measurable. It is essential that the results you expect to achieve are realistic. If not, failure is guaranteed. At the same time, you must be able to measure your results. If not, how will you know if you succeeded in your message?</p>
<h3>Sample aims and objectives</h3>
<ul>
<li>To teach the understanding of current discrimination laws, and to train staff on the implications relating to recruitment, appraisals, benefits, pensions and retirement.</li>
<li>To train senior management to use Microsoft Outlook to manage day-to-day priorities, and how it can be adapted to co-ordinate their departmental strategies</li>
<li>To train staff on customer care strategies and to ensure that they understand how customer care needs are to be implemented as part of the organisation’s ‘Treating Customers Fairly’ initiative.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Rules for writing objectives</h3>
<p>An objective should be phrased in a positive way, and should outline the outcomes of the training. It should begin with, “At the end of the session you (i.e. the trainees) will be able to&#8230;”, or” after this session you will be able to&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
<p>It should also indicate the standards that the trainees must be able to attain, to determine the success of the training: “… so that we will be able to use this with every customer enquiry…..” or, “…..by using this we’ll be able to cut waiting times down by half the current level”.</p>
<p>The objective should then continue to state the following:</p>
<ol>
<li>The Performance</li>
<li>The Standard</li>
<li>The Consolidation</li>
</ol>
<p>1. The <strong>PERFORMANCE</strong> or behaviour of the trainee when demonstrating their improved ability and understanding. The more measurable your statement of performance, the more focused the session.</p>
<p><strong>Sample performance statements:</strong><br />
“The new software will enable you to programme the computer in half the current time”<br />
“Once you’ve learned the new programme you’ll achieve 95% accuracy on the data input”</p>
<p><strong>Measurable performance words </strong><br />
List Construct Know<br />
Write Describe Understand<br />
Identify Explain Enjoy<br />
State Demonstrate Appreciate<br />
Prepare Achieve<br />
Define Grasp the meaning of</p>
<p>2. The <strong>STANDARD</strong> to which the performance must comply, e.g. legal standards, company standard, speed, quality, numbers to be completed. This is vital for the effective evaluation of the training session. If the trainees do not have a standard of competence/completion how will the trainer know if the session/course has achieved its aims. It’s often difficult for the trainer to understand what standards he/she is aiming for but this must be established at the outset.</p>
<p><strong>Sample standard statements:</strong></p>
<p>“You’ll be able to write training programmes for all types of delegate in 5 hours against the current time of 18 hours.”</p>
<p>“You’ll be able to use animations on all of your PowerPoint presentations to create impact.”</p>
<p>3. Test understanding as well as recall. This we call the <strong>CONSOLIDATION</strong> of the training. It is when the trainees are tested for their competence, understanding, recall etc. This may be tested on the training course by exam, observance, demonstration, quiz, oral tests etc. The trainer should always make the trainees aware what form the testing will take. [Note : make trainees aware of the CONDITIONS under which the performance is to be tested, e.g. without the use of notes/reference material, under normal working conditions, alone/with the help of others, may also be included]</p>
<h2>Establishing your key messages</h2>
<p>For a training session to have impact the trainer must be clear about the Key Messages that the training must establish in the mind of the audience. Research shows that 38% of what is learned is forgotten in 2 days and 65% in 8 days so ensuring your message ‘hits the spot’ is essential. This is vital when the training takes the format of a presentation and there is limited opportunity for interaction with the audience.</p>
<p>Throughout the training the trainer must reiterate and reinforce the key messages if the training aims and objectives are to be achieved. To determine the main ideas, think of how you would respond to these questions:</p>
<ul>
<li>What ideas and messages will best lead to my objective?</li>
<li>What ideas do I most want my audience to remember?</li>
</ul>
<p>Key Messages should:</p>
<ul>
<li>State conclusions</li>
<li>Accomplish specific aims and objectives</li>
<li>Be interesting</li>
<li>Be few in number</li>
</ul>
<h3>Examples</h3>
<p>These could be the main ideas for implementing an organisation’s customer service programme.</p>
<ul>
<li>Main Idea 1: Satisfied customers are essential to the success of any organisation.</li>
<li>Main Idea 2: Every organisation has both external and internal customers.</li>
<li>Main Idea 3: Quality customer service is a learned skill.</li>
</ul>
<p>Once you state your Key Messages, then you need to identify the information that will communicate and support these ideas.</p>
<h2>Sources of supporting material</h2>
<ul>
<li>Inside the organisation &#8211; product descriptions, statistics, intranet, newsletters and reports</li>
<li>Outside the organisation &#8211; internet research, trade journals, newspapers, books and database services</li>
<li>Personal &#8211; insights, examples and anecdotes</li>
</ul>
<h3>Types of supporting material</h3>
<ul>
<li>Examples</li>
<li>Comparisons</li>
<li>Findings</li>
<li>Statistics</li>
<li>Graphs</li>
<li>Audio-visual media</li>
<li>Testimony of experts</li>
</ul>
<h3>Examples</h3>
<p>Key Message 1: Satisfied Customers Are Essential To Our Success</p>
<ol>
<li>Case studies that link quality customer service to the improved profitability of organisations</li>
<li>Examples of successful programmes of competitors</li>
<li>Projections to show the impact of improved customer service on profitability</li>
</ol>
<p>Key Message 2: Every Organisation Has Both External And Internal Customers</p>
<ol>
<li>Highlight the difference between internal and external customers</li>
<li>Current examples showing how employee morale has been improved</li>
</ol>
<p>Key Message 3: Quality Customer Service Is A Learned Skill</p>
<ol>
<li>Review of customer service concepts that are relevant to your organisation</li>
<li>Proposed plan to train employees in customer service</li>
<li>Timeline for implementing the plan</li>
</ol>
<h2>Exercise</h2>
<p>Review part of a training presentation you have designed. Write down the answer to the following questions and discuss your results with an employee.</p>
<p>What message do I wish to convey in this part of the training session?</p>
<p>How does the information I am delivering help to establish my Key Messages?</p>
<p>What else could I use to reinforce my Key Messages?</p>
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		<title>Dealing with conflict and aggression</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>There are some things which we can do in such situations, so that we are more likely to handle them successfully:</p>
<h2>Be Prepared</h2>
<p>You may know a situation is likely to arise from information you already have available. If this is the case, it is important to use this information to anticipate what is likely to happen and how you are going to handle it. Other preparation you can carry out, where you have no prior knowledge of a situation, is to be sure of your facts and policies, e.g. complaints’ procedure.</p>
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<h2>Keep the Situation Calm</h2>
<p>By being careful not to overreact to initial comments, you are more likely to understand the problem. It is important you show customers that you understand the problem, and how they feel. Let them know that you can help them and that you want to help them. Focus on the issues concerned and not the personalities as this will help maintain the customer’s self-esteem. Above all, be positive in your handling of the situation.</p>
<h2>Look For Solutions</h2>
<p>Even if a solution is not apparent, keep calm and aim to be positive. Explore possible options, as very often, giving people a choice and getting them to think, will help to calm them down. Encourage the customer’s help in finding an acceptable solution. Try to view each problem as an opportunity.</p>
<h2>Show You Care</h2>
<p>Customers with a difficult situation can be frustrated when faced by an organisation. By responding with empathy and showing you understand, you can demonstrate that you do care about their situation, and that you do want to find a solution. Your aim should be not only to resolve the problems but to make customers feel they have been treated fairly. By staying calm and being professional, you can often resolve such situations. By listening and showing understanding, you will find it much easier to resolve difficult problems.</p>
<h2>Three Key Principles</h2>
<p>There are three key principles it is important to consider in dealing with difficult situations:</p>
<ol>
<li>Maintain or improve the other person’s self-esteem.</li>
<li>Listen and show you understand the problem.</li>
<li>Involve the customer in solving any problems.</li>
</ol>
<p>In dealing with such situations, it is useful to have some sort of a framework to follow. This will help you ensure that you cover everything that you need to, and it will provide you with a means of making sure you resolve the problem.</p>
<p><strong>Greet the Customer in a Friendly Manner</strong> &#8211; The way you address a customer can greatly affect your success in dealing with both difficult and routine situations. A friendly manner can gain quick co-operation and lets customers know that you are interested in their needs. In addition, you are setting a positive tone for the rest of the conversation. If you start out on the wrong foot, it will be even harder to win the situation around.</p>
<p><strong>Ask For Details of the Customer’s Enquiry</strong> &#8211; Find out as much as possible about the apparent problem from all available sources. This is an information gathering stage where you need to gain information from the customer through effective questioning. Let the customer understand the relevance of the questions you ask. You cannot help with a situation until you know all the details. Customers who have lost confidence in the organisation may be reluctant to discuss details with you and they may need to be encouraged by your assurances that you can help. Listen and respond with empathy to their situation, and let them know that you want to help.</p>
<p><strong>State the apparent problem</strong> &#8211; If you are giving bad news, or the problem has been brought to your attention by a colleague, you should state the apparent problem. Tip: try to state it from the customer’s point of view. This gives you a starting point and gives the customer a chance to say whether you have understood the problem correctly. It is important to understand exactly what the problem is before you can solve it.</p>
<p><strong>Check and indicate you understand the situation</strong> &#8211; This is an opportunity for you to summarise the situation as you understand it. It will demonstrate to customers that you have been listening, and that you do understand the situation. It will also give customers a chance to add anything that has been missed. A genuine effort on your part to understand their position will enhance their self- esteem.</p>
<p><strong>Identify the real problem (if different from the apparent problem)</strong> &#8211; When you know all the facts, you may feel the apparent problem is not the real one. For instance a spate of customer complaints (the apparent problem) may be caused by a lack of training given to a newly appointed staff member (the real problem).</p>
<p><strong>Openly express your position</strong> &#8211; Let them know that your objective is to satisfy them. At the same time tactfully tell them what you can, and cannot, do. Be careful not to imply that their point of view is wrong. Tactful honesty will give them a clear understanding of what you can do to resolve the situation.</p>
<p><strong>Assess the alternatives</strong> &#8211; Try to identify all the possible solutions. At this stage do not worry too much about how practical the solutions are, it is important to generate as many possible solutions as you can.</p>
<p><strong>Select the best solution</strong> &#8211; This can be the most complex stage. Very few changes can be made in isolation, and therefore a solution which seems beneficial to you, may have a detrimental effect on someone else in the organisation. Each alternative solution therefore must be carefully weighed against the benefits and possible drawbacks each would provide.</p>
<p><strong>Reach agreement on specific actions</strong> &#8211; There is no point in solving problems unless action is taken to implement the chosen solution. If possible, reach agreement on a final solution. If it’s a problem that cannot be resolved immediately, establish an action plan for solving it, explaining what you propose to do. Where the solution is complex, the action plan is essential, spelling out what is to be done, by whom, and when. Ask for the customers’ ideas, or offer suggestions. By including them you will enhance their self-esteem. Make sure that you both know what will happen next.</p>
<p><strong>Thank Customers for Their Co-operation</strong> &#8211; Let them know that you appreciate their help and co-operation in resolving the situation. Complete the conversation by sincerely thanking them as this will enhance their self-esteem and their satisfaction with the organisation.</p>
<p>Such situations may result in a customer wishing to take up the complaint with a manager or even to make a formal complaint. Most organisations will have a complaints’ procedure. In these cases, it is important not to pass any judgement on the situation, but to fully inform the customers of their rights under the complaints’ procedure and of the action they need to take.</p>
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		<title>More Presentation Skills Podcast</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Excellent presentation skills give you a platform to demonstrate your sales skills, leadership qualities, communication skills, influencing abilities and promotion potential. Our objective in our presentation seminars is to teach you the skills and techniques that will give you both the confidence and competence to enjoy making presentations in all situations. We will be giving [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Excellent presentation skills give you a platform to demonstrate your sales skills, leadership qualities, communication skills, influencing abilities and promotion potential. Our objective in our<a href="http://www.totalsuccess.co.uk/presentation-skills/"> presentation seminars </a>is to teach you the skills and techniques that will give you both the confidence and competence to enjoy making presentations in all situations. We will be giving action points to sharpen your image; reduce nerves; allow you to appear both confident and competent and increase your credibility in the eyes of colleagues and clients.</p>
<h2>PODCAST 1</h2>
<p>In this live podcast, Total Success’s Senior Trainer, Warren Wint is giving critique to a delegate’s presentation and looks at the two area in terms of delivery:</p>
<ul>
<li>Vocal Image</li>
<li>Body language</li>
</ul>
<p>Topics also covered include:</p>
<ul>
<li>valid content</li>
<li> flow of ideas &#8211; concept</li>
<li> quality and credibility</li>
<li>conviction and competence</li>
<li>what audiences expect when you&#8217;re delivering information</li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://www.totalsuccess.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Presentation-skills-voice-language.mp3">Presentation Skills 1</a></p>
<h2 align="left">PODCAST 2</h2>
<p>In this live podcast, Total Success’s Senior Trainer, Warren Wint is showing delegates how to maximise on body language and visual image to increase the power of expression.</p>
<p>He covers these five areas:</p>
<ul>
<li>eye contact</li>
<li>facial expressions</li>
<li>gestures</li>
<li>dress</li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://www.totalsuccess.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Presentation-skills-expression.mp3">Presentation Skills 2</a></p>
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